Thomas Duvigneau

Queensday? More like Beat the Shit out of Each Other Day!

Thomas Duvigneau - Sunday 03 May 2009 - 23:34 - 112 x read
The night before Queensday. I walk about in Groningen accompanied by three of my best friends. We find ourselves enjoying an Irish band, drinking a beer or two and putting our Irish dancing skills to the test. If I then knew what the night had in store for us, I'd be long gone from there.

As I pack my bags to head over to the northern part of the country to hang out with some friends I get a text message:

"Hey man, what are you doing tomorrow night? I'm heading over to Groningen, there's gonna be lots of bands all around the city! I feel like party hardy, let me know if you're gonna tag along!"

It was a message from one of my best friends. After reading it I was psyched to go, but I wasn't sure if the guys I was heading to would be up for it. When I arrived I told them about the event in Groningen tomorrow night. We settled down on the idea that if we feel like going, we'll go.

When the moment of deciding was upon us we all felt like going. We were up for some partying allright! So be it. After arriving in Groningen we quickly met up with the guy that send me the text message. It didn't take long before we found the Irish band.

Only after awhile we decided to check out the other bands as well. We moved over to a Rock band, but it was pretty much jam packed there so we decided to settle down at a DJ around the corner. All was well and we were having major fun! Then suddenly we hear someone screaming. When we turn around, people moved away and formed a circle. In the middle were two guys literally beating the shit out of each other. And as you could've guessed, it didn't stay with only two guys.

Moments like this make me want to jump in between and stop this fucking madness. Yet I know that doing so will only worsen the situation. My friend seconds me on that by saying exactly that. It's been awhile since I felt that way, I never find myself near or in fights. The last time I was part of such an event was back in High school. I motion my friend that we should get the hell out of here. As we reach the outskirts of the crowd we see that security finally got to them, only to tell them to "Stop that!".

Later that night one of our female friends had to go to the toilet. I guess I don't have to explain how long that takes, as numerous songs have done so before me. As I talk with my friend about this ridiculous fight we notice a group of girls who repeat the same principle. "I can't believe this, what the fuck is wrong with these people?!" I exclaimed. I get a few sympathizing looks, but the bigger part was enjoying the fighting scene. Luckily this didn't take that long.

Well then, surely that was the worst part of the night. Guess again, moments later as we were heading to get something to eat we find another scene of brutal, pointless violence. A guy performing a dropkick in someone's face while he was lying down on the ground. I was shocked. I seriously couldn't believe these people. What the fuck is wrong with you doing shit like this, especially on a day like this, where we supposed to celebrate not dislocate each others bones! They must be seriously full of pure hate which gets it's place in the physical world by drinking a liquid known as beer too much. I then knew for sure it was that underlying hate, not the alcohol that is responsible for shit like this.

And then when you thought it was all over, they start another round. This time inside a driving bus for crying out loud! I am seriously hurt by the sight of people literally demolishing each other for not even a logical reason. When the physical part was over the death glaring phase could begin. A face covered in blood confusingly stumbles my way. He almost bumped into me and there was a glimpse of eye contact. I could feel his hate and it scared me senseless. I am not quickly afraid of other people, but this guy was insane, his eyes looked like he was out to kill. The rest of the ride I applied what I've learned to find a state which you can refer to as 'inner peace'.

Looking back at this night I seriously can't believe that there are actually so many people who are that fucked up they find a certain fulfilment in destroying other human beings. They all contribute to a more worse world. They poison each other, they poison the spectators, they poison everyone around the globe. You might not be consciously aware of this, but even if you do not believe in that everyone and everything is connected with each other, you surely can agree with me on that this kind of behaviour is fucked up. This has got to stop!

Comments

Kim Kristine
Kim Kristine -  (2009-05-03 23:42)
OMG die titel. Zag em op twitter. Klikte er op. Onder het laden dacht ik: Deze blog is VAST van Thomi.


AAaaaaaannndd... i was right..

ik ga hem zo meteen lezen :)


Update: Kay, read it. Agree with it. Dunno what to do with it.

Kees Romkes
Kees Romkes -  (2009-05-04 09:31)
If everyone is connected to everyone, why didn't you stop it... Only if it was your mind, you create your perception of the world, if you don't want people to fight, why do you see them fight ? I'm not telling you to ignore, but I'm telling you to improve.

Yes war happens, yes fights happen, but just standing there, doing nothing. That is what makes me really angry...
Thomas Duvigneau
Thomas Duvigneau -  (2009-05-04 12:52)
I see what you're getting at. But try to reason a guy who's only short term goal is to hurt someone. And let's just say I don't really have the physical strength to make them stop. Even if I did, it doesn't make things better, it only puts a temporarily break on that person's hate. You need to get to the core of these people somehow and if I knew how, I'd surely 'intervene' them. If anyone knows how, please let me know.
Kees Romkes
Kees Romkes -  (2009-05-04 13:20)
Not doing anything, putting energy in complaints and worries isn't going to solve this... Try to put energy in positives, try to accomplish and stop worrying ;)
Thomas Duvigneau
Thomas Duvigneau -  (2009-05-04 13:29)
Point taken :)

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